This past week was spent just a few short hours from our home to celebrate the marriage of my brother-in-law. It was a truly great time with some truly great people. We got to spend the entire week at a little retreat in the woods (well, a wooded area of Mechanicsburg anyway), and we felt like we were able to just “get away” for a few days. While we still had the rush of getting ready for the wedding and packing as much into 7 days with our West Coast family as we could, I wouldn’t have changed a thing.
It’s amazing what can be revealed to you once you take a moment to sit back, relax, and enjoy the view. It’s in those quiet, albeit chaotic, moments that you realize just what you might be missing or what you really do need in your life.
Lessons learned during this vacation:
1. Slow down. Life is not to be rushed through, and it also does not bend to my rules. No matter how much planning you put into a day, something will always go differently than you expect. Roll with it. Enjoy it. Watch your kids (and yourself) grow from it. And don’t stress about the fact that things change in an instant. Control what you can, but be ok with what comes your way.
2. Family is of utmost importance. Ok, so I already knew this one. I know it enough that I often tell my DH how much I miss his brothers who are now all out West. Their families are growing, our family is growing, and my girls often ask if we can invite their aunts, uncles and cousins to their birthday parties. It breaks my heart. So, we will make it a priority to do what we can to get out there and visit. Because life is all about your family and it needs to be a priority no matter what.
3. Live life simply. Learn about what you need and what you can do without. The simpler life is, the happier you will be. Clean out your stuff, cut down on your bills, really take the time to think about whether you need that bigger house or more expensive car. You’d be so surprised about what you can live without and what you really can get by with. As an example, I know our lives have gotten so much better and more meaningful through simply turning off our cable. It saves us some money each month, and we’re “forced” to spend more time as a family, connecting, bonding, and just plain talking to each other.
I’m so thankful for the time that we’ve gotten to spend with family over the past week. Now, it’s time for us to unpack, decompress, and get back to our normal routine. That routine will certainly be changing. I think the girls have really like a more “relaxed” mommy over the past week. My biggest hint was yesterday, on our way home, my oldest daughter Keira kept telling me she loves me. Over and over again I got to hear those beautiful words from her. I asked her this morning why she kept telling me that (not that I was complaining) and she said, “because I just love you”. That’s certainly good enough for me.